An amazing thing has happened the last few months that I wanted to share with you. A number of months ago, a friend of mine, who had already been relatively successful, felt like she had hit a plateau in her sales career, so I gave her a copy of my book, the Angel Inside. What has happened since then has been nothing short of phenomenal! The book so energized her that she busted through her plateau and even earned a white Mercedes automobile from her company for her results!

How would you like that to be your bonus at work - a new car!

I even hosted her presentation ceremony at our home and we had 106 people over! The fact is that she read the Angel Inside nearly ten times in the last few months and credits it with being a major factor in her success! She has referred so many people to the book - and many of them after reading the book have come back and ordered, 25, 35, 50 copies or more to hand out.

I spoke at an event for her to 118 people and we sold 140 copies of the book. One woman recently purchased 100 copies and gave them out this past weekend. I have to say I feel a little uncomfortable tooting my own horn, but it is obvious this little book has a special way of reaching people, challenging them and encouraging them at the same time.

This past weekend our friend was at a conference with 700 people in Green Bay, Wisconsin and was asked to talk about her success. She very graciously - and enthusiastically - endorsed my book again. The promoters were overwhelmed by people asking where they could get the book, so they asked my friend to come back up and tell everyone how they could get The Angel Inside.

As a subscriber you notice that I make products available on a regular basis, but rarely do I say to you, "You have to come and buy this!!" Today, however, I am doing just that. I have received way too many testimonials from people who have read the book and written to me how it has transformed their life to not strongly encourage you to get The Angel Inside, TODAY (one reader even took the book to Florence, the story's setting, and read it as she looked at the statue of the David - a major element in the book)! I guarantee that you will love the book. I'll even bet that after reading The Angel Inside, you will have friends and relatives you will want to buy the book for (I know this because it happens all the time).

You know that part of personal growth is putting good stuff into your mind. Let the next book you buy be, The Angel Inside.

Below is a very special offer on single and quantity purchases of this book (plus hardback and paperback versions). Plus when you order in quantities of 25 books or more Chris will give you a free 15 minute coaching consultation. In quantities of 100 or more you will receive a free 45 minute coaching consultation.

For special pricing, click here to order http://angelinside.jimrohn.com or call 1-877-929-0439.

If you are looking for a way to get to the next level and beyond, The Angel Inside will be a great tool!

You Are Made for Success!
Chris Widener

In This Issue.......

1. Charting Your Course to Success Article
2. Made for Success Quote and Commentary
3. The Last Word...
4. Special Offer for The Angel Inside
5. Customer Feedback
6. More Information

1. Charting Your Course to Success Article

Winning: Defining It, Achieving It by Chris Widener

If you ask most people whether they would like to be considered a winner or a loser in life, they would most assuredly reply that they would like to be a winner. But this begs the question, "What does it mean to win at life?" In some things it's easy to define a clear winner. In a basketball game, whoever has the most points at the end of the game is the winner. In a game of hearts, my favorite card game, whoever has the least amount of points when one of the players reaches 100 points is the winner.

But it isn't quite as easy to decide what it means to win in the game of life, is it? And that is because people define winning in different ways. For many, winning is through the accumulation of money or material possessions. "He's a success, a real winner," they say. Others think winning means living the longest. Still others say that it is to have their body in tip-top shape. Some say it is to have a happy family. Some say it is to regularly enjoy their hobbies.

All of these are fine, in and of themselves. But...

I would like to encourage us to think about winning or success in a different way. Generally, people think of winning as the over-achievement in a particular, chosen area. I like to believe, however, that to truly win at life is not to overachieve in one area but to succeed in maintaining balanced achievement in numerous areas.

Let me repeat that: To truly win, to be a success, is not to overachieve in one area, but to maintain balanced achievement in all areas of our lives.

For instance, is a person a success if they earn millions of dollars but lose their family? Is a person a success if they garner national fame but have no friends? Of course not. In fact, they may live the most pitiful of all lives.

First, Define
So the first thing we must do is define what we will consider "winning in life." As you ponder this for yourself, I would like to recommend that you focus in on three overarching areas: Body, Soul, and Spirit.

The body is that which has actual connection with the physical world and would encompass physical health, financial health, family, work, and relationships. How is your health? How are your finances? Are your relationships, both with your family and others all that they could be? Is work fulfilling? How would you define winning in these areas?

The next area, the soul, is that which deals with the emotions, will, and intellect. It is our thoughts, ideas, and attitudes. How are you emotionally? Are you able to exercise your will? Are you growing intellectually? Have you done an attitude check lately? How would you define winning in these areas?

And the spirit is the part of us that transcends this life, the part of us that communes with God. Zig Ziglar said, "Money will buy me a house, but not a home, a bed, but not a good night's sleep." So true. Inner peace comes from something much deeper. Have you thought about going back to your spiritual roots? Are you able to spend time in quiet, solitude, and prayer from time to time? This is an extremely important area and all too often neglected. What would you like to achieve in this area? How would you define winning in these areas?

As we experience balance in these areas, we will find ourselves much more at peace with ourselves than if we were to experience tremendous success in one area but loss or failure in the other areas. We were designed to work as congruent, balanced people. This is how we get to the end of our lives and say, "I won."

Second, Prioritize
Once you have defined what it is that you would like to achieve in each of these areas, you have to prioritize them, and let other, non-important areas drop off the chart. Commit to developing a plan to succeed in a balance of areas. Exercise your will. Choose. Dwight D. Eisenhower said, "The history of free men is written not by chance, but by choice - their choice."

When we manage our time and schedule, we are simply making choices in regard to our priorities. For most, their priority is to take action on whatever is screaming the loudest at the moment. For those who become winners, they reflect on what they desire to achieve, make a plan and decide to eliminate the rest.

Last, Do it
Okay, you have defined winning. You have prioritized your life. Now, the hard part: Doing it. This is where we are all alone. We all make this step on our own, but having a written plan is as good a preparation as you can get. Rather than saying that you are going to do this for the rest of your life, take the next week to implement your new balance of winning. If a week sounds too long, just focus on today. Spend some time, be it ever so small, enhancing your life in these areas. Exercise a little. Read for a while to challenge your mind. Deal with your emotions. Spend time in silent contemplation to renew your spirit. Give some time to your spouse and children. Will Rogers said, "Even if you're on the right track, you won't get anywhere if you're standing still." There has got to be action.

As we do this over time, and balance our lives out, we will begin to finally feel like we are winning at life. That will be exciting, as will the process!

Chris Widener



2. Made for Success Quote and Commentary

"If you don't know where you are going, how can you expect to get there?" -- Basil S. Walsh

Chris' Commentary:
If you want to get somewhere, you have to know your destination. If you don’t have a destination, you will wander around in the "wilderness", going nowhere and accomplishing nothing. If you aim at nothing your ammunition will go nowhere and end up lying on the ground - spent. The fact is, if you are going to achieve success in this life you must first define it for yourself and then aim for it. Only then can you diligently pursue it.

Action Point: Do you know where you are going? Have you specified your final destination? Take some time today to put your dreams down on paper, and then act upon them!



3. The Last Word...

This week I'd like to share a little something I call, "The Inspiration Factor". The first thing that an aspiring leader must realize is that they must be inspiring! That is, they must be capable of, and willing to inspire people on to greater things than if the leader were not in their lives.

So, is this too grandiose an ideal for the average local business owner? Absolutely not. The people who work at your business, school or organization need to be inspired by you on a regular basis. It is what keeps them from giving up.

Remind them of the big picture:

They aren't just serving food, they are helping families spend time together, so make it enjoyable.

They aren't just changing oil, they are helping make sure a woman and her children don't break down on the side of the road at night.

They aren't just teaching reading, they are helping open a mind to the mysteries of the world.

They aren't just selling gifts, they are helping people show their appreciation to others in a tangible way.

This week: INSPIRE! -- CW

 

4. Special Offer for The Angel Inside

5. Customer Feedback

Here are some of the testimonials and comments we received over the past week from our Ezine subscribers. We love receiving comments and feedback from our readers - so keep it coming!


Good Morning Chris, I was at the last Jim Rohn event held in California in 2004. That is when I officially met you. Let me introduce myself. I have the privilege of coaching with JRI. The reason for me sending this email is to thank you for writing "The Angel Inside." This is a book the touched my heart and soul. This past year I visited Italy and had the privilege of seeing the statue of David. What an incredible time. I took your book with me and kept it close as I heard first hand the story of David coming from the Marble. I saw the many pieces Michel Angelo birthed, both finished and not. Have you ever been there? If not you must go. :) It was truly incredible. This is a book EVERYONE needs to read. Thank you for touching my heart and life with this story. God used this book in my life in numerous ways. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you..... This is a book I would like to share with my friends, clients, and at speaking engagements across the United States. Several months ago, through an email from JRI, I was offered to purchase the books at a discounted rate, is this still possible???? If so I would love to help spread the word about this totally heart touching book. Is this possible? Thank you Chris. I remember seeing you on stage for the first time thinking such wisdom at such a young age. I was touched and impressed. Thank you for imparting your heart to us. You are a very special young man and I know God will continue to bless you.
-- Jacqueline

Chris, over the past couple of days I've been listening to the 2001 Weekend. I wasn't at that event but was at 04 Anaheim Weekend. The part of the moderator you performed was so much better than that of the person who emceed the 2001 Event. Maybe it's because I met and talked with you and have watched the 04 Weekend on DVD. I don't know... but you made that weekend special for me and the group from Baton Rouge. It's the one year anniversary now since 04 Weekend and we've been going over our success since then. Lord Bless.
-- Bill Cobb

Hi Chris: My name is Sirilak. I do not remember how long I have been reading your article, but I remember previous Made For Success articles you sent out to online subscribe readers like me. I really want to thank you how much you inspire readers and ignite the power within. I want to share my story (before I move on please understand I have no intention to promote my work at all) I was born Thai, got married and moved to Canada. I used to work with couple international companies as an administrative assistant. When I came to Canada, no one offered the job I wanted so I applied for a job at a German restaurant as a dish washer and a kitchen person. I worked at the restaurant for 2 months and my arms were painful and eventually quit the job. Recovery of my joint problem took me 3 months. I was unemployed, stressful of financial problems. I got your articles through online subscription, to be honest, I didn't think correctly at that time, but I liked the quote for success you sent out. I kept some of the articles I liked in my folder and read them from time to time. One day I read about "Great Day Every Day" that was when I learned that I could make a difference in my life. You are right, better attitude makes a better life. I kept talking to myself "I am Made For Success." I started looking for new job through employment agents. There was only one employment agent that tried to get me to work in office environment. The employment agent that hired me sent me out to work with several offices; these offices hired me just a day or two (maximum 3 days) and turned me down because of my English with Thai accent. The employment agent did not send me out to work in an office environment there after. I quit working with the employment agent and looked for a new job again. Just before Christmas in 2003 I got a job as a retail clerk in a shopping mall. This is another international company that the name is well known around the world. I found that nobody cares about my accent with this company. I had lot of fun working during Christmas time. The company had to lay off the seasonal workers, and I am one of them. I thought that I did not mind to get laid off because I had a good time working with people with this company. I also thought that the "Great Day" is waiting for me again. Well, the great I thought of was just the day the store manager told me I was hired as a permanent employee. I was so happy and delighted. It was the true great day. I kept working with the company for a year. Christmas 2004 I got a good news from a college I applied to go for further study. I quit the job at the retail store early this year and I went home to visit my family in Thailand. My husband encourages me, I will always find a good job again. I got back to Canada and started looking for a new job meanwhile I was collecting my writing. I told my husband I would write a book. While working on my book, there were some obstacles and difficulties, but my husband told me "just few more weeks and not to give up." (This similar concept indicates in one of your article Take A Turn at Tenacious" My book was assigned the ISBN by the Library and Archive Canada. Today I have already finished my writing and my husband hires a professional editor to view my book. My husband and I are working on the self-publishing process and we know that our Great Day is waiting for us. Just one book that is sold can count as another success. (Soon this will happen to me) This is just part of my success that is inspired by your article "Great Day Every Day" Again, I would like to thank you for sending an online course of success. I strongly believe that there will be much more success waiting for you, for me and everyone if they really take your article into daily practice. It works for me, thank you. I have to go now because my great day is waiting. You make people become successful and I would like to say, May the success be with you
-- Siri



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