In my book, Twelve Pillars, co-authored with Jim Rohn, I talk about your associations – that is, the people you hang around with. Have you ever given much thought to your associations? If not, you should, because they affect you in many ways. I believe that we should classify our relationships with people into three categories: Expanded Association, Limited Association and No Association.

Expanded Associations: These are those who you should spend more time with because they challenge you to become more.

Limited Association: These are those who aren't necessarily bad for you, but they don't challenge you to be better either. You should limit your time with them.

No Association: These are people who not only don't challenge you to become a better person, they -- speaking very bluntly here -- suck the life out of you and bring out your worst. Avoid these people.

When we start proactively determining what kinds of people we are going to spend time with, we can actually shape what kind of people we become and what kind of success we have. There is an old proverb that says, bad company corrupts good character. BUT... The reverse is true as well: Good company produces good character!

Take some time and think about the people you spend your time with. Then make sure that you are maximizing your relationships!

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In This Issue.......

1. Charting Your Course to Success Article
2. Made for Success Quote and Commentary
3. The Last Word...
4. Live the Life You've Always Dreamed Of!
5. More Information

1. Charting Your Course to Success Article

Dare to Dream Again by Chris Widener

"Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure, than to take rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy nor suffer much, because they live in the gray twilight that knows neither victory nor defeat." -- Teddy Roosevelt

Do you remember when you were a child and no dream seemed too big? Some of us thought we would walk on the moon; some dreamed of riding with Roy Rogers; others imagined stepping to the plate in a big-league game. Every one of us, when we were young, had a common trait - we were dreamers. The world hadn't gotten to us yet to show us that we couldn't possibly achieve what our hearts longed for. And we were yet still years from realizing that in some cases we weren't built for achieving our dream (I realized about my junior year of high school that I was too short and too slow to play professional basketball. The dreamer is always the last to know).

Eventually we started to let our dreams die. People began to tell us that we couldn't do the things we wanted. It was impossible. Responsible people don't pursue their dreams. Settle down, get a job, be dependable. Take care of business, live the mundane, be content.

Do you know what I say to that? Hooey!

It is time to dream again!

Why? Here are just a few reasons:

* Avoid regret. The facts are in, and someday we will all lie on our deathbed looking back through the history of our lives. We will undoubtedly think about what we wished we had done or accomplished. I for one don't want to regret what could have been, what should have been. So I am deciding today to pursue my dreams.

* The world needs people like you to dream of something great and then to pursue it with all of your heart. Maybe you belong to a business, school or organization that started out with good intentions but has settled into the same ol' same ol'. Shake them up and remind them of how they could really help people if only they would dream!

* Personal and family fulfillment. One of the things that happens when we stop pursuing our dreams is that a little piece of us dies and we become disheartened, if only in that area of our lives. Stepping up and pursuing your dream rekindles that passion and zeal that everyone has the capacity for and lets us experience fulfillment. Having a purpose puts the zip in our step and the zing in our emotions!

* Making the world a better place. All of the great accomplishments that have ever happened began with a person who had a dream. Somebody rebuffed the naysayers and said to himself or herself, "This can be done, and I am the one who will do it." And in many instances they changed the world for the better. It isn't just the Martin Luther King's and the J.F.K's either. Think of all the people we have never heard of who have started things large and small that help people world-wide every day.

* Leaving a legacy. How will your children remember you? As one who sought all that life had to offer, using your gifts and talents to their fullest extent, leading the family with a zest for life, or as an overweight couch potato who could have been? Our children need to see that we dream; that we search for something better. They in turn will do the same!

So where do we start? Here are some ideas:

* Reconnect with your dream. Set aside some time to let yourself dream. What have you placed on the backburner in order to live the status quo? Settle on one or two dreams that you can and will pursue. Don't come up with too many. That will only deter you further.

* Decide that you will do it. This may seem elementary but many people never decide and commit fully to their dream. They simply keep "thinking" about it.
Tell others that you are going to do it. This puts you on the record as to what you are dreaming about. It makes you accountable. It will help you do it if for no other reason than to avoid embarrassment!

* Develop a step-by-step plan. This is absolutely essential. You must sit down and write out a few things:

* A timeline. How long will it take to the end?

* Action steps. Point-by-point what you will do and when you will do them.

* Resources you will need to draw from. What will it take? Who will need to be involved for help or advice?

* An evaluation tool. You need to evaluate from time to time whether you are progressing or not.

* A celebration. Yep, when you are done you should already have planned what you will do to celebrate. Make it big!

I have found that there is no better time than now. So, set aside some time today to get started on your dream. Follow the action plan and set your sights for the top of the mountain! You will be glad you did!

Chris Widener

As the author of Live the Life You Have Always Dreamed Of! I wrote this book solely to help you learn what the successful already know – how to turn your dreams into realities!

Give me the next 5 minutes and your life will change FOREVER. I promise that if you read the following information and act on it, your life will never be the same!

So read on at http://livelife.yoursuccessstore.com and learn more about this amazing offer from Chris!  

2. Made for Success Quote and Commentary

"Within your heart, keep one still, secret spot where dreams may go." -- Louise Driscoll

Chris' Commentary:
You may not be able to pursue your dream right now. Maybe you are in a time of learning skills or building character. Perhaps you are working your job so you can save the money to finance your dreams. That's okay - there is a time for everything. But don't let your dreams die while you are waiting! Keep them alive. In fact, reserve a room in your heart for them. Keep them there. Sneak down and feed them regularly. Let them grow so when you let them out they are vibrant and strong! They may be waiting now but they will charge forth in their freedom someday!

Action Point: Don't be like most people and let your dreams die. Take some time today to think about your ultimate dreams! Foster them, feed them, and prepare them for the day they will be set free!

3. The Last Word...

In keeping with our daring to dream and achieving your dreams "theme" in this Ezine edition, I wanted to share with you a little philosophy of the Widener household. The only two words not allowed in our house are "I can't". "I'll try" is okay. In fact, that's great! But not, "I can't." Almost nobody should use the words "I can't," because in reality, they can! And if, in fact they really can't, do you know what happens if they at least try? They get better! They learn lessons! They understand life a little more! They build courage that comes from trying new things! They realize that it wasn't as hard as they thought it was going to be! But what if they try and actually succeed? Then all the better because if they had said, "I can't," they would have never experienced the joy of accomplishing the task they set out to accomplish. Remember, it is better to try and fail, than to never try. So my question to you is: What have you been saying "I can't," to?

Take some time today to stare it down and decide that you will try. Then take a simple, tangible step toward pursuing it. You can never win the prize unless you get in the game - get in today!

4. Live the Life You've Always Dreamed Of!

10 Rock-Solid Principles That Will Absolutely, Positively Turn Your Dreams Into Realities!

The secrets of the most successful people in the world are about to be revealed to you!

As the author of Live the Life You Have Always Dreamed Of! I wrote this book solely to help you learn what the successful already know – how to turn your dreams into realities!

Give me the next 5 minutes and your life will change FOREVER. I promise that if you read the following information and act on it, your life will never be the same!

So read on at http://livelife.yoursuccessstore.com and learn more about this amazing offer from Chris!

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